Im admin and not in a clan. Alot of times, like you, I just want to come in and play on the server. Let's be honest, alot of times it's like babysitting on the server. Some days I put up with being cussed at, such was the case earlier this week, and I did not kick or comment back. Other times I'm having to spec this guy, answer this guys pb problem, deal with that guy tk'ing etc... I don't mind most the time but some nights I want to play and not stop every 5 min to talk, deal etc. On these occasions if someone starts shit I just boot them. It's not often but I just don't have time for it.
When the yell for map change comes up it's spammed by maybe 2 people and when they don't get their way they bitch. I'm on latenights and there is a limit to the number of people needing to be on the server before I change map. That comes from experience of admining and knowing you will kill the server if you change map with those numbers on. I like to go by majority rules but usually it's just a few people spamming for switch.
I was a player on the server for alot longer than I've been admin. I like shit talk until it gets racist or vulgar towards mothers

. The other night in team chat I gave a panzer shit for spawning and blocking ladder while he waited for panz to load. Then told him I was just giving him shit (trying to convey it was as a player and not as admin) I got a comment back something along the lines of I'll show you shit and then me and half the team was panz tk'd. This is common place sad to say. Sometimes I wonder the age and maturity level of some of the players on the server.
Don't get me wrong, as a player on the server in years past I have been kicked for intentional tk and potty mouth. Maybe I had a bad day, someone rubbed me the wrong way or the tk's just got to me. What I never did though was post about it. I probably deserved it, I would just come back another time with a fresh attitude. Not to say your not right in posting, it can be a good tool to check the admins, but honestly most of the time it's not the whole story. I figure it's only human not to diminish ones argument by telling your own faults.
I don't know this whole situation but it seems others knew the kick was coming so you can't be 100 percent innocent. Easy..just move on and have fun. I made a rule a long time ago on the server for myself, when I stop having fun aka tk's, kids running their mouths, just having a bad day and the server makes it worse... I leave. I come back later or the next day. Works well for me.
Sorry so long but in parting let me ask everyone a question..currently, or when you were younger, did you ever go to a friends house for dinner and something was served that you did not like. Did you ever throw that shit against the wall and tell his mom to go fuck herself? Then why do you think you can do it in the server and get away with it? It's that over the pc mentality I guess.