OK hopefully I can put this to rest, I dont think everyone has grasped what I've tried to say. As for your problems with buddhism keekano there are many sects of buddhism, any and all religions can and have been corupted/misinterpeted by my views. The core teaching of buddhism and christianity is unconditional love for all things. Religion differs from person to person and to label it as detrimental to society is I feel ignorant. Just because some people use dictionarys to beat people to death doesnt mean the dictionaries are responsible.
But on to the main point of this post, I thought I'd post something interesting about theology and faith in general here by someone who I feel is very wise but you be the judge.
Q: "Faith is important in Buddhism, and in Zen there are various objects of faith - zazen, or the kesa, or the master. But what is faith?"
A: "Whatever you like. Each person is diffrent. The object of faith differs for each individual. Each person must know and recognize for himself or herself what is his or her object of faith. You must believe in whatever impresses you most deeply. I cannot say, I cannot decide objectively. This is very important. In almost all religions you are told that you have to believe this or that, or in God or Buddha. I do not agree. You have to find for yourself, in yourself. The teacher can lead you to the river's edge but cannot drink in your place, or compel you to drink either. That is a subjective problem."
"So I answer, whatever you like. The most important thing is to believe. Believe in what is highest, ultimate. What is true? It is for the wisdom of the spirit to decide."
"God, Buddha, the Cross . . . People usually believe according to their genes, their heredity, education, family environment, physical habits. But in the end . . .
"The dog follows its master, it forgets everything else when it sees its master. Its brain changes; it is faithful, it believes in its master. True, deep love is important in faith."
"In the end, I cannot decide your faith for you. You must decide yourself. It is not just a question of form. I happen to be a Zen monk . . . . . You must find the answer by yourself."
Taisen Deshimaru, Soto Zen monk.
Excerpt from "Questions to a Zen Master"
I left out some of the more technical stuff in the last paragraph.
Anyone who is interested in theology I recommend picking up this book. It doesn't preach a particular religion and for those that don't know Zen is not really a religion rather meditation on truth or "The Middle Way". It can be usefull for those "on the fence."
Don't turn this into a Theology debat tho or I can go on forever.