Who finds christmas depressing?

by **-HaVoC-** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 12:43 am

I grew up and still live in New England and maybe it can be blamed on the scenery or maybe it can be blamed on my mom, but I have always been fascinated by Christmas. It is by far my favorite holiday. The music, the season, the family, the food, the TV specials I've watched since I was too young to remember and all of the really good times I can remember. We still have the old vinyl records and I can remember the pops and scratches by heart.

Merry Christmas and to all a good night!

by **Chacal** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 1:10 am

Originally posted by Alofwar
You have to eat a meal, which if its so good, why don't you eat it more often?

66% of familys in the UK end up in a big fight because the food makes you as prone to mood swings as a pregnant woman.

Brits should be careful with good food because they're not used to it.

Seriously, you're just growing up. The thrill of getting presents is not what it was. In a few years you'll discover the thrill of giving presents.

If you want to kill the spirit, do what my family just did: decide we're not giving any presents anymore. And when you receive one you don't like, look disappointed. That really kills the joy of giving.

by **SkiloDog2000** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 1:49 am

lol
christmas pwns nubs
i love the food, love the spirit
and i dont mind my family, we all share the common intrest of music so while some sit upstairs and bitch, everyone else goes down in the basement and goes over hendrix, beatles, stones, in a traditional 4 piece

by **Evan** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 2:04 am

Originally posted by -HaVoC-
I grew up and still live in New England and maybe it can be blamed on the scenery or maybe it can be blamed on my mom, but I have always been fascinated by Christmas. It is by far my favorite holiday. The music, the season, the family, the food, the TV specials I've watched since I was too young to remember and all of the really good times I can remember. We still have the old vinyl records and I can remember the pops and scratches by heart.

Merry Christmas and to all a good night!

I'm with Havoc on this one.

by **Rand0m** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 2:37 am

Where about havoc? Your north of boston so you have to be somewhat close to me.

by **ferret963** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 8:27 am

Originally posted by PudriK
When I was a kid it was all about the presents. I would snoop through the house, or even surreptitiously and carefully open presents to find out what I was getting. It was all about the list I gave to Mom, and every year I pretty much knew what I was getting. And I was real picky about my list.

Several years ago, I just stopped caring. Mom still asks for a list, even though I'm 27. But I'm no longer specific, and really, it doesn't matter.

This may partially be because I have the means now to pretyt much get anything that I would ask for as a gift. But also, I came to realize that the joy of the gift is not in getting what you want, but in someone putting the thought into coming up with a gift for you. Some of the best gifts are not asked for.

And more than anything, and perhaps you will come to this as well, now that I live so far form my family, I look forward to Christmas as a time to be with people who know me and love me for who I am. It's hard to appreciate your family when you spend every day with them.

I guess not everyone has a family they miss, but I am glad I do, and I look forward to Christmas every year.

Oh yea being in Michigan, always have to have snow on Christmas and a ski trip over the holidays Some of my best memories are going to church Christmas eve and having it snow and snow and snow! I love snow, if it's going to be cold I want snow and lots of it! Lol Yea I agree with you, I like giving gifts that people didn't expect to get and they love My fav gifts are from my sister, because her and her bf always get me something really cool and I never know what it's going to be I used to really hate my sister, but now I look forward to seeing her now that she lives prity far away and works all the time.

by **=ender=** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 8:50 am

-HaVoC-, SkiloDog2000, Evan, and ferret963 all seem to get the picture! This is just the kind of cheer that needs to be spread around this time of year.

Merry Christmas, everyone!

by **Camel toe joe** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 8:54 am

I really don't understand why people are so pissed about this.. maybe its because I work for a Jewish owned company and am so used to happy holidays...and our holiday party rather then christmas party.. either way the beer is still free

over here in PR they also celebrtate the 6th of january as 3 kings day..

P.S. feliz navidad!

Originally posted by Evan
What retailers are doing is pissing me off:

http://www.cnn.com/2005/US/12/18/christmas.holiday.reut/index.html

by **CodeRed68** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 10:21 am

I love Christmas time. For all the reasons mentioned above by havoc, ender, sabres, evan, etc.
I hate the whole commercialization of Christmas. I am a little older and maybe that is why. I am sure when I was a kid all i thought about was presents and "what am i getting?". But you look at the holiday season differently now. I love just having off of work, the music, food, etc. Spending time with friends and family. I wish parents these days would teach thier kids these values instead of just buying them what they see on TV and rammed down thier throats in the commercials.
I have friends who have kids that are toddler age or a little older and they are all stressed out about getting them what they want and the whole trip to the mall and fighting the crowds, etc. I think that is what ruins the holidays for people and is why less people look forward to it. Because they know ahead of time how stressful it will be.
If people just took a step back and just appreciated the time of year and didn't focus on the gift giving, everyone would have a much better time.

Regarding the subject of "Merry Christmas" or "Happy Holidays".... I am all about supporting the numbers and who you are affecting the most. While I have no problem with saying "happy holidays", the truth is a large majority of us celebrate xmas! Out of 10 people, 1 doesnt celebrate xmas. Why change everything for that? Actually, here is what i could find on the actual numbers:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_the_United_States

It looks like 80% christians, 5% other religions and 15% athiest, agnostic! Interesting. On a personal note, i was raised catholic but now consider myself agnostic.

Total Christian 79.8%
Total other religions 5.2%
No Religion/Atheist/Agnostic 15.0%

by **JimmyTango** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 11:21 am

Originally posted by Evan
What retailers are doing is pissing me off:

http://www.cnn.com/2005/US/12/18/christmas.holiday.reut/index.html

There are numerous holidays at or around the same time as Christmas. I do not see why some people get so honked off that retailers want to make each holiday as important as the next.

Christmas isn't the exclusive holiday of the end of December, people. Hell, it isn't even the day he was born!!!

I do agree with the 'Holiday Tree' BS, as a decorated tree is a specific Christmas tradition.

It would be like calling the Menorah a 'Holiday Candle Stick.'

Christmas today is nothing but a holiday for retail sales. My family stopped giving gifts years ago. We just get together, eat some good home cooked food and then me and my uncle fall asleep watching football.

by **ferret963** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 11:33 am

What to think?
The small community college that I went to and got my associates from used to put up a manger scene in the courtyard of the school that was donated ba a major contributor to the school. People had complained about it so they said any other religions that want to put things in designated areas of the school can and it was all fine and good until a satanic group came in and put like dead rabbits, and bloody things up. So the college ended up canceling the whole thing and putting the manger in permanent storage. That really didn't seem right to me and it's a shame that it happened

The only reason that the satanic people did it was to end the whole thing and the college can’t put restraints on what your "religion" shows because that would be wrong according to many people, and lawsuit would be soon to fallow was the justification.

by **Alofwar** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 12:47 pm

Christmas to me has no religious meaning, I don't go to church onChristmas, or for any other day of the year, but when other religions start saying it offends them, well i say F*** U, u shouldnt have come to this country, they need to accept we have our own traditions so let us do them. If we went to the middle east you would probably be killed for celebrating christmas. I not being racist, just being telling the truth.

by **Chacal** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 1:31 pm

These are times of extremes in both politics and religion. Extremist people are easily offended. At some point extremists will be nudged out and situations like this will go back to the normal level of tolerance.

by **CodeRed68** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 1:38 pm

Originally posted by JimmyTango
It would be like calling the Menorah a 'Holiday Candle Stick.'

LOL, that's a good point ! I never thought of it that way.

by **PraiseA||ah** » Mon Dec 19, 2005 2:01 pm

The annual 'Kill a tree for Jesus' holiday. LOL

I googled and came up with these two links (among others). I had always been taught that the tree was an ancient pagen symbol, like the easter egg and bunny, which was incorporated by the newly converted Christians.

http://www.historychannel.com/exhibits/holidays/christmas/trees.html

http://www.christmas-tree.com/where.html

Personally, I sometimes spend Christmas alone, sometimes with family and/or friends. Depends on my mood. We didn't celebrate the traditional Christmas that most Americans celebrate. We had no tree and gave no presents as strictly speaking, neither has anything to do with the birth of Jesus. I have celebrated with the giving of gifts, carolling et al and it is a good time.

Merry Christmas
Happy Holidays
Peace on Earth - Good Will to Man

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